I sometimes feel I am far from even being able to start on that problem. I think it is often life's biggest difficulty, especially if you have great loves (for

I sometimes feel I am far from even being able to start on that problem. I think it is often life's biggest difficulty, especially if you have great loves (for activities, places, etc) that do not coincide. Unfortunately, it is easy for it to become a situation where nobody wins and everyone loses.