He wasn't blaming his problems on feminism, he was saying he disagreed with them. I know you are trying to be helpful with your post, but I honestly found it o

He wasn't blaming his problems on feminism, he was saying he disagreed with them. I know you are trying to be helpful with your post, but I honestly found it offensive. All I said was that lack of attention from women does actually negatively affect men (contrary to what you were asserting). And from that it seems you decided I fit some selfish, misogynistic stereotype. You assume that I don't listen to women or sympathize with their feelings. You assume that I think attention is a right or something owed to me, when I never said anything even hinting at that. I didn't blame women, or imply that they are doing anything wrong. I wasn't "complaining on the internet", I was trying to inform you and others about how people actually feel because obviously even men don't all get it. And I didn't really get the point about how being married reduced your urge for attention. It's almost tautological. Once you have the attention of a woman, attention stops being a concern.