> What's wrong with these people? > I really can't understand it. Why does anything have to be wrong with them? Why can't it just be that they have different

> What's wrong with these people? > I really can't understand it. Why does anything have to be wrong with them? Why can't it just be that they have different tastes? I have no issue with you having your own opinion (it's stupid; I won't do it, I can't understand). That's all well and good. Saying "what is wrong with these people" about something you don't understand, but that is harmless thing and doesn't involve you significantly... that's just plain close-minded. The comment above yours at least tried to provide some reasoning (people following recommendations, fooling themselves with cognitive dissonance), but it didn't try to draw a distinct "me vs them, something is wrong with them" as your comment did. You should reflect a little if this is your gut reaction to people doing something you don't understand but that is harmless; it shouldn't be "something is wrong with them", it should be "I wonder what they see in it? I just don't get it for some reason; I guess we live different lives"