> I'm not sure what moral one should take away from that, other than that your mental checklist of dating requirements may be less relevant than you imagined.

> I'm not sure what moral one should take away from that, other than that your mental checklist of dating requirements may be less relevant than you imagined. The take-away is that there is no "special someone". Just a fairly large pool of "soulmates" with suitable chemistries. The less discriminating you are about the more superficial stuff (biologically speaking), the better your chances.