I found that as soon as I expected people to make mistakes driving, those mistakes bothered me much less. When I held strangers to high regard; I was always dis

I found that as soon as I expected people to make mistakes driving, those mistakes bothered me much less. When I held strangers to high regard; I was always disappointed. Moving from reactionary to anticipatory made me a much calmer person (in practice, it's hard to fulfill all the time).