>>Instead of teaching me how to get a job, people just >>tell me my résumé is awful, as if that would help. Hey full eempathy and encouragement for you, but y

>>Instead of teaching me how to get a job, people just >>tell me my résumé is awful, as if that would help. Hey full eempathy and encouragement for you, but you’re making a mistake here. First, yes a resume is a small thing but unfortunately they can matter and can influence your succces so flip that bit in your thinking as soon as possible. Secondly some could interpret the comment as attitude of being ungrateful or low motivation. Forget whether or not you meant it, just think about how it can be heard. Yes we’re all friends here and honesty is good. But still, however much it sucks for you now, still gotta lead with your best foot. Sometimes a friendly community is also one with people who may offer help or offer suggestions, in proportion to how well your message comes acrosss.