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Are you sure about smiling? Read myth #1 at http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/the-4-big-myths-of-profile-pictures/ http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/the-4-big-m

Are you sure about smiling? Read myth #1 at http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/the-4-big-myths-of-profile-pictures/ http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/the-4-big-myths-of-profile... Of course one will have more success if women come to them, but I think it only works if you have the natural looks to pull it off. Some people, even when they're not ugly, don't have the looks required to entice women to message them no matter how they dress, pose, or how much they go to the gym.

HeyLaughingBoy 16y ago
I think the take home message is that most guys' profiles set the bar pretty low. It doesn't take much to rise above the noise floor: by simply attempting to be personable and have a decent photo you're well ahead of the game. Sounds obvious, but I used to check out men's ads just to see what I was up against, and I was definitely not impressed!