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> I'd be surprised if you've > never had to stop associating > with people who beliefs you > did not share at all. That really isn't how fully functional

> I'd be surprised if you've > never had to stop associating > with people who beliefs you > did not share at all. That really isn't how fully functional adults act. You should be perfectly fine knowing someone who disagrees with you. In fact, that exposes you to variety of opinions (which is good good your critical thinking abilities). Why else talk to anyone at all, if you've just surrounded yourself with only yes men, who just agree with you on everything? You can disagree with someone and still be friends, enjoy a conversation, or have other things in common. Even about politics. Even about everything.

throwaway77790 8y ago
This is exactly the kind of comment I was trying to prevent with the "at all" and your image being adversely affected by association with the other. Please look at the comment in the whole context and not pick the parts that make it look unreasonable. There are always things that people disagree on, but they are not going to adversely affect you because of their belief. I can be an omnivore and another can choose to be vegan, but I would not disassociate only on that.
- dmitrygr 8y ago
  I will be friends with anyone interesting. Especially if that's someone whose opinions are the opposite of mine. That would be fascinating. Let anyone judge me for that as they will. Find something to stand for, and don't be afraid to be juged for it. What is it you fear? Someone thinking that because you're friends with a Trump voter, you're a monster somehow? Let it be publicly known that I'm friends with Trump voters, Hillary voters, Gary Johnson voters, and even someone who once voted for Nader. I'm ready to be judged.
  - throwaway77790 8y ago
    If I were a public figure who wanted absolutely zero association with something, I'd take steps to make sure I were not associated and could not be reasonably associated with said thing. FB employs a ton of people with widespread beliefs. Palmer happened to be a public figure whose associations with FB could cause discord if not already.
ionised 8y ago
Adults are not the perfectly rational beings you are painting them to be.
- dmitrygr 8y ago
  Sure, but they can always work to better themselves, though, instead of making excuses for being how they are.
  - ionised 8y ago
    That's how it should be, sure. It's rarely how it is in my view.

throwaway77790 8y ago

This is exactly the kind of comment I was trying to prevent with the "at all" and your image being adversely affected by association with the other. Please look at the comment in the whole context and not pick the parts that make it look unreasonable. There are always things that people disagree on, but they are not going to adversely affect you because of their belief. I can be an omnivore and another can choose to be vegan, but I would not disassociate only on that.

dmitrygr 8y ago
I will be friends with anyone interesting. Especially if that's someone whose opinions are the opposite of mine. That would be fascinating. Let anyone judge me for that as they will. Find something to stand for, and don't be afraid to be juged for it. What is it you fear? Someone thinking that because you're friends with a Trump voter, you're a monster somehow? Let it be publicly known that I'm friends with Trump voters, Hillary voters, Gary Johnson voters, and even someone who once voted for Nader. I'm ready to be judged.
- throwaway77790 8y ago
  If I were a public figure who wanted absolutely zero association with something, I'd take steps to make sure I were not associated and could not be reasonably associated with said thing. FB employs a ton of people with widespread beliefs. Palmer happened to be a public figure whose associations with FB could cause discord if not already.

ionised 8y ago

Adults are not the perfectly rational beings you are painting them to be.

dmitrygr 8y ago
Sure, but they can always work to better themselves, though, instead of making excuses for being how they are.
- ionised 8y ago
  That's how it should be, sure. It's rarely how it is in my view.