Sexual attraction is complicated. There are cultural influences, especially when it comes to races, at specific time periods some races are seen as cool to date

Sexual attraction is complicated. There are cultural influences, especially when it comes to races, at specific time periods some races are seen as cool to date, some are fetishisized, while others are avoided: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_racism https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_racism Interesting article based on studies from tinder an okcupid: https://www.inverse.com/article/36379-tinder-black-women-asian-men-racism https://www.inverse.com/article/36379-tinder-black-women-asi... Even if you completely ignore race an society's influence, we seem to be both attracted by genetic differences AND similarities: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Claus_Wedekind https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Claus_Wedekind https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Genetic_sexual_attraction https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Genetic_sexual_attraction