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Canada is better than United States from my experience of living in both countries. I sought help with gender dysphoria in the United States. Ended up being dr

Canada is better than United States from my experience of living in both countries. I sought help with gender dysphoria in the United States. Ended up being drugged with antipsychotics, while stuck in a hospital for two months against my will and when I just wanted to start HRT. Doctor wrote untrue statements on my medical records and I couldn't find anyway to sue since I was a poor university student at the time. Almost resulted in suicide. Insurance was billed approximately $55,000 Now I'm in Canada and I'm suicidal from the past events in life but I can see a psychiatrist once a week. She doesn't recommend drugs and mostly just wants to talk with trying to improve my outlook. I'm trying to get death with dignity in Switzerland and got a positive evaluation from her after several months. Everything in Canada is covered since I was born in Canada (citizenship). I'm in Montréal and from what I've seen most doctors don't push prescription drugs compared to what I saw in United States (Michigan). Canada also has a phone number (similar to 911) but is a direct line to speak to a nurse or social worker for help. People here actually can get help concerning their health right away and not fear having to pay anything. edit: I think the cost of the healthcare in the USA is why people that don't get help, end up mass shooting and mental health stigma is a result of people not being able to afford it; trying to rationalize it's for people really messed up (not them).

muglug 8y ago
I think the cost of healthcare has something to do with it, but surely the culprit is the gun culture that's everywhere you look the moment you leave big coastal cities. The culture that says - "feel threatened? Reach for your gun!" Also, second what other people are saying - I'm so sorry you were hurt for so long. I hope that you stick around a while, continuing to advocate online for the trans community.
- OpenBSD-reich 8y ago
  Oh please. Guns are no more the root of gun violence than BitTorrent is the root of digital piracy. Gun control is the cheap easy path to kudos and biscuits, where improving the mental health system is the long tiring hardwork nobody wants to do. Muslim examples in Europe have shown vehicles and knives to be just as effective. Last but not least, if you vote away my hobby/toy, don't whine like a little piggy when I rally others to vote away your hobby/toy. Government is force which should be used sparingly and responsibly.
  - pjc50 8y ago
    > Muslim examples As you've almost spotted, the problem is one of radicalisation rather than either gun ownership per se or mental health. Other countries have guns. Other countries have people with depression or PTSD. Mass shootings in other countries are generally correctly labelled as terrorism. But people are unwilling to realise that the American mass shooting problem is one of terrorism.
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    - cheez 8y ago
      Do you think the people driving trucks into people have no mental health issues?
      - pjc50 8y ago
        Some of them, probably. But not necessarily all of them, and I don't think it's a necessary precondition. I've certainly not heard of very many suicide bombers or mass shooters that had diagnosed but unmanaged mental health conditions. Is someone having political beliefs that they're willing to die/kill for a sign of mental illness?
        cheez 8y ago
        > Is someone having political beliefs that they're willing to die/kill for a sign of mental illness? I think you're making an assumption that this is what is happening. What do unsuccessful, captured suicide bombers say?
        pjc50 8y ago
        There are a few of these: http://www.spiegel.de/international/world/a-conversation-with-an-isis-suicide-bomber-logistician-a-1043485.html http://www.spiegel.de/international/world/a-conversation-wit... https://www.huffingtonpost.com/raza-rumi/an-interview-with-a-suicide-bomber_b_10387052.html https://www.huffingtonpost.com/raza-rumi/an-interview-with-a...
nowarninglabel 8y ago
Thanks for documenting your story, appreciated reading through one of your blog posts and would recommend others to take a look.
vSanjo 8y ago
You don't know me, and I don't know you, but I hope the words of a real person from a different country behind a keyboard help you at least get through your day, week, month or year. Best of luck to you, friend. Whatever your endeavours, however you -truly- want things to be, I hope it goes the direction you plan.
cheez 8y ago
Geez, sounds tough. You seem like a smart person, I think you'd be worth knowing.

muglug 8y ago

I think the cost of healthcare has something to do with it, but surely the culprit is the gun culture that's everywhere you look the moment you leave big coastal cities. The culture that says - "feel threatened? Reach for your gun!" Also, second what other people are saying - I'm so sorry you were hurt for so long. I hope that you stick around a while, continuing to advocate online for the trans community.

OpenBSD-reich 8y ago
Oh please. Guns are no more the root of gun violence than BitTorrent is the root of digital piracy. Gun control is the cheap easy path to kudos and biscuits, where improving the mental health system is the long tiring hardwork nobody wants to do. Muslim examples in Europe have shown vehicles and knives to be just as effective. Last but not least, if you vote away my hobby/toy, don't whine like a little piggy when I rally others to vote away your hobby/toy. Government is force which should be used sparingly and responsibly.
- pjc50 8y ago
  > Muslim examples As you've almost spotted, the problem is one of radicalisation rather than either gun ownership per se or mental health. Other countries have guns. Other countries have people with depression or PTSD. Mass shootings in other countries are generally correctly labelled as terrorism. But people are unwilling to realise that the American mass shooting problem is one of terrorism.
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  - cheez 8y ago
    Do you think the people driving trucks into people have no mental health issues?
    - pjc50 8y ago
      Some of them, probably. But not necessarily all of them, and I don't think it's a necessary precondition. I've certainly not heard of very many suicide bombers or mass shooters that had diagnosed but unmanaged mental health conditions. Is someone having political beliefs that they're willing to die/kill for a sign of mental illness?
      - cheez 8y ago
        > Is someone having political beliefs that they're willing to die/kill for a sign of mental illness? I think you're making an assumption that this is what is happening. What do unsuccessful, captured suicide bombers say?
        pjc50 8y ago
        There are a few of these: http://www.spiegel.de/international/world/a-conversation-with-an-isis-suicide-bomber-logistician-a-1043485.html http://www.spiegel.de/international/world/a-conversation-wit... https://www.huffingtonpost.com/raza-rumi/an-interview-with-a-suicide-bomber_b_10387052.html https://www.huffingtonpost.com/raza-rumi/an-interview-with-a...

nowarninglabel 8y ago

Thanks for documenting your story, appreciated reading through one of your blog posts and would recommend others to take a look.

vSanjo 8y ago

You don't know me, and I don't know you, but I hope the words of a real person from a different country behind a keyboard help you at least get through your day, week, month or year. Best of luck to you, friend. Whatever your endeavours, however you -truly- want things to be, I hope it goes the direction you plan.

cheez 8y ago

Geez, sounds tough. You seem like a smart person, I think you'd be worth knowing.