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My theory is that bonds between people arise out of shared suffering/challenges. Thus lifelong friends were often at school together, or in the army, or somewhe
by winchling 8y ago
My theory is that bonds between people arise out of shared suffering/challenges. Thus lifelong friends were often at school together, or in the army, or somewhere else unpleasant, or at least occasionally so. There's reduced scope for this after the age of 30, obviously, unless you take up a dangerous sport or something else risky.
- tokyodude 8y agothis imo is actually an unindented consequence of crunch in video game dev. I hate the crunch but love the friends I made. yes I know you can make friend without crunch and I don't want to subject people to it but I have bonding memories of going out for breakfast after working all night
- ehnto 8y agoMountain biking has had an uptick in popularity for all ages it seems.
- fjsolwmv 8y agoNot just your theory, that's textbook human psychology. That's why "hazing" exists.
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