Most of your points are about safety and that's a concern many have. I'm curious though, do we know how big of a problem it actually is? What's the probability

Most of your points are about safety and that's a concern many have. I'm curious though, do we know how big of a problem it actually is? What's the probability of an online date being unsafe vs a bar date? How much of it is rational vs irrational fear. Is it more likely you'll get hurt driving on the way to the date?