> a few weeks later you hate the job yes. and, to make matters a bit more confusing, any job can be made vile by extreme hours, rude/uncaring/mean co-workers,

> a few weeks later you hate the job yes. and, to make matters a bit more confusing, any job can be made vile by extreme hours, rude/uncaring/mean co-workers, multiple bosses, unnecessary chaos and stress caused by an overprivileged unqualified manager, etc. so one needs to somehow see past all of that in order to figure out if one hates the job or this job