It is precisely the rationale of democracy that you DO 'get to pick and choose which laws should be enforced' (to some extent). We can change the law formally,

It is precisely the rationale of democracy that you DO 'get to pick and choose which laws should be enforced' (to some extent). We can change the law formally, but rely on people following and enforcing that law in the absence of the formal change. It's not for companies or individuals to decide, unilaterally, what laws they will enforce or follow, in any society.