You're probably rather young? I had similar thoughts too in my twenties. Why am I not more likeable, why don't I look better, why don't I <insert insecurity>? I

You're probably rather young? I had similar thoughts too in my twenties. Why am I not more likeable, why don't I look better, why don't I <insert insecurity>? I saw these insecurities as obstacles to the perfect life I had envisioned for myself. What helped was living longer and observing that almost no one is living my dream life and what's more, there's TONS of suffering in this world, so all I all I have it pretty good. To accomplish this, I think it was important to be exposed to lots of people, as they have served as data points for what is realistic and what is a fantasy.