>if it takes me x years longer to find love/dream job/etc. than other people, then that is x years I will never get back Sorry, but this doesn't make any sense

>if it takes me x years longer to find love/dream job/etc. than other people, then that is x years I will never get back Sorry, but this doesn't make any sense to me. You will not get back any of the time you spent doing anything. You sat on toilet for 2 mins longer than other people everyday, then you spent months more than other people on toilet over years of your life. This doesn't mean you are going to hurry up and get out of the bathroom faster than you should. You get what you get in your life. It's nothing to do with what you deserve or what's fair. If you stop believing in the all powerful entity that will make it fair for everyone and start believing everything happens by a random chance, you would be better off.