If you were born in a first wold country, with first wold living standards and medical care, and your country is not at war, and none of your siblings or parent

If you were born in a first wold country, with first wold living standards and medical care, and your country is not at war, and none of your siblings or parents died early deaths, then life is indeed unfair, just unfair in your favour. I don't mean to minimize what you may be feeling, but we are too hung up on fairness sometimes I think. It's not whether it's fair, just whether you can be happy. For example, can you be happy with a good enough job, or do you need the dream job?