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There may be cultural differences affecting your communication. It could be that you're accustomed to being deferential in this situation and your supervisor is
by gradschool 8y ago
There may be cultural differences affecting your communication. It
could be that you're accustomed to being deferential in this situation
and your supervisor is accustomed to students being more vocal about
their preferences. Does he know you dislike the research direction
he's advocating, or could he be too busy or distracted even to be
aware of it? Are you sure he's forcing you and not just making
suggestions?
Assuming communication isn't the problem, how clearly have you defined
the scope of the research you want to pursue? If you don't at least
have an outline for your thesis having been there for three months,
maybe he's justifiably worried about a lack of direction on your part
and is trying to give you some. The more clearly you have it planned
out, the more comfortable your supervisor should be with having you
run with it.
Assuming communication isn't the problem and assuming you've presented
a well thought out plan that he rejected, you should take a hard look
at whether he has a point. One school of thought holds that Ph.D. is a
time to do what you like without worrying too much about how
fashionable it is, but another regards a poor choice of dissertation
topic as career suicide. What reasons does he have for you to work on
those topics instead of the one you had in mind?
I know what it's like to be passionate about a research topic, and
although you don't believe this now, your interests are subject to
change as you mature intellectually. My own view is that a Ph.D. is
neither a free-for-all nor a matter of life and death, but your
opportunity demonstrate your competence with a decent piece of work
and start your career. The main thing is to do a good job and not get
too hung up on things that don't matter in the long term.
- 0xFFC 8y agoThank you so much. This comment is literally a gold mine for me.