I see a clear pattern here, and it is the loss of once common coming-of-age ritual. You might add other modern suggestions in that spirit: No Meat until you s

I see a clear pattern here, and it is the loss of once common coming-of-age ritual. You might add other modern suggestions in that spirit: No Meat until you slaughter an animal yourself. No pepper spray unless you try it yourself. Spend a week living in the 'retirement community' before dumping those you claim to love there. Etc. Basically dogfooding as gatekeeping.