Is it a thing, or is it something made up by psychologists and social activists with an agenda? It would appear to be unfalsifiable. If someone is sure they do

Is it a thing, or is it something made up by psychologists and social activists with an agenda? It would appear to be unfalsifiable. If someone is sure they don't want X, and you're telling them they really do want X it's just that they've learned to be pathetic their whole life and now their entire thought process is inferior to yours, that seems not only like pseudo-science but actually a dangerously extreme belief.