>>It is not easy to always distinguish what is due to obstacle and what is due to preference. That's because even without the role of society, a person's prefe

>>It is not easy to always distinguish what is due to obstacle and what is due to preference. That's because even without the role of society, a person's preferences are made out of mental outlook they have developed over time. What one person finds to be impossible, the other person might find it to be perfectly easy to do. There is nothing you do to fix that. That largely depends on personal enterprise and what the person wants to do in life. I have seen people throw away perfectly fine opportunities while in position of advantage. I have also seen people run though opportunity famine, move mountains and earth all to create a small opening some where. Ultimately its just on the person. And most importantly You can't fix people against their will.