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When I pick up my date, if she's obviously spent effort to dress nice for our evening, it's a big plus for me. A lot of men (me included) check for a ring and
by skookumchuck 8y ago
When I pick up my date, if she's obviously spent effort to dress nice for our evening, it's a big plus for me.
A lot of men (me included) check for a ring and do not approach if there is one. Not all men are dissuaded by that, of course.
Consider there are a lot worse things than being attractive to men. Attractiveness makes for many opportunities, studies show that attractive people get paid more and get better tips. I am not physically attractive to women (none of my girlfriends have ever complimented me on my looks) so I have to work that much harder. Maybe they like me because I don't swear :-)
- DoreenMichele 8y agoConsider there are a lot worse things than being attractive to men. Plenty of women have been raped and stalked. Some would be hard pressed to name worse experiences than the ones they have had for the crime of being attractive.
- xor1 8y agoPlenty of people have been harmed due to their wealth. Does that mean you would rather be poor than rich?
- DoreenMichele 8y agoWhat I wish is that I had not been molested and raped as a child and that I weren't currently being cyberstalked by nefarious individuals that have a track record of genuinely materially harming me. In fact, I wish a short list of people who have harmed me and will not cease and desist their icky crap would kindly drop dead as the only thing they could possibly do to enhance my life. I also wish I didn't have to put up with "gotcha" questions of this sort.
- watwut 8y agoIt that harassement about you being attractive or more of about that person being asshole on power trip? What I mean to say is that even if you was ugly and all women would cover themselves from toes to head, assholes on poverty trip (of both genders) would still harass and abuse. I wish it will get better for you.