I've been in pretty much the same situation - being the guy with the idea, not knowing how to code it and having problems finding developers that were both tale

I've been in pretty much the same situation - being the guy with the idea, not knowing how to code it and having problems finding developers that were both talented, got things done and were willing to stick through the hard times. My solution was simply to learn to code (PHP in my case) and it has been one of the best decisions I've ever made. I think you should do the same. It's not all that hard, and there's plenty of help to get if you ask google. And by the way, it is obvious from your post that you're dedicated and really want this to succeed - that is the one most important ingredient in success. I think you have a good chance, Good luck. Feel free to e-mail me if you have any questions, my mail is in my profile.