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I know exactly how I feel about this: Gross! Telling someone that's interviewing "you should come to burning man because my wife and I are swingers" is gross a

by moate 8y ago

I know exactly how I feel about this: Gross! Telling someone that's interviewing "you should come to burning man because my wife and I are swingers" is gross and inappropriate (borderline illegal?). If you're inclined to ask someone who you were interviewing for a job to come do sex to you and your wife, I think it's a very reasonable expectation that you confirm this person is aware they have not gotten the job. Doubly so when you're an executive of one of the largest companies in the world. Seems like this is extremely poor judgement at best, and abuse of his position/the implication of a job at worst.

sverige 8y ago
> If you're inclined to ask someone who you were interviewing for a job to come do sex to you and your wife,... Exactly right. Stop right there. You've gone over the line of professional behavior into something far below that standard. This is always unacceptable. Sorry if that cramps someone's social life, but there are other places to look for sex partners.
jtr_47 8y ago
What kind of person would consider going or being interviewed after they heard that statement? Regardless if they wore a suit and brought their mother to the event. It shows that you may be interested but are testing the waters? If this person really wanted the job, it looks like she would have done almost anything to get it. I do not condone the behavior of either party involved. But at least one person should be strong enough to say no thanks, I don't believe in compromising my integrity for an interview with those requirements attached. I'd report this to HR ASAP too. peace.
- moate 8y ago
  Spoken like someone who's never been jobless long enough to wonder when, not if, the electricity is going to be turned off... Great that you have such high moral standards. Here's the thing: You're victim blaming. This is a bad look. This sort of "there are bad people on both sides" choice is ignoring that you're only condemning her behavior because she responded to his horrible behavior. She did report this behavior to google. She also said she didn't have sex with the guy, and only gave him a neck massage after constant badgering. TL;dr- You're being part of the problem here bro, and you need to knock that off if you want to maintain this air of moral superiority.

by moate 8y ago

sverige 8y ago

> If you're inclined to ask someone who you were interviewing for a job to come do sex to you and your wife,... Exactly right. Stop right there. You've gone over the line of professional behavior into something far below that standard. This is always unacceptable. Sorry if that cramps someone's social life, but there are other places to look for sex partners.

jtr_47 8y ago

What kind of person would consider going or being interviewed after they heard that statement? Regardless if they wore a suit and brought their mother to the event. It shows that you may be interested but are testing the waters? If this person really wanted the job, it looks like she would have done almost anything to get it. I do not condone the behavior of either party involved. But at least one person should be strong enough to say no thanks, I don't believe in compromising my integrity for an interview with those requirements attached. I'd report this to HR ASAP too. peace.

moate 8y ago
Spoken like someone who's never been jobless long enough to wonder when, not if, the electricity is going to be turned off... Great that you have such high moral standards. Here's the thing: You're victim blaming. This is a bad look. This sort of "there are bad people on both sides" choice is ignoring that you're only condemning her behavior because she responded to his horrible behavior. She did report this behavior to google. She also said she didn't have sex with the guy, and only gave him a neck massage after constant badgering. TL;dr- You're being part of the problem here bro, and you need to knock that off if you want to maintain this air of moral superiority.