what one does in their own time is indeed nothing to do with the company. Suggesting that one can get a job with one's employer if you just do x, is either fra

what one does in their own time is indeed nothing to do with the company. Suggesting that one can get a job with one's employer if you just do x, is either fraud or gross misconduct. If he had not mentioned the job then he'd just be an arsehole who discusses their sexual proclivities in an professional setting.