I live in China and used to love getting this done. It makes my ears feel fantastic. But due to the worry of damage to the ears and so on, my wife desires me

I live in China and used to love getting this done. It makes my ears feel fantastic. But due to the worry of damage to the ears and so on, my wife desires me to not do this anymore. So I don't. But I really miss it. So my wife helps me out now and then to take earwax out, maybe twice a month. She never goes in very deep, out of concern for my ears. But every now and then, she'll see a really huge piece just sticking out and is able to grab it with some specialty tweezers designed for ear use (she bought them off taobao). It's not the same, but it's almost as nice. She sometimes takes out pieces that are 1.5 square centimetres. Something is wrong with me.