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>Not sure what the fix is either, other than ruthless enforcement of quotas. Or just not letting kids get into those games. At some point my wife pointed out t
by naravara 8y ago
>Not sure what the fix is either, other than ruthless enforcement of quotas.
Or just not letting kids get into those games. At some point my wife pointed out that I had a problem disengaging from certain types of games (for me it was MOBAs specifically). They are super-addictive.
It never really got in the way of anything and if I had anything else to do I would go do that, so it wouldn't really qualify as "addiction" in a DSM sense. But the issue is what it does when you don't have anything to do. They have a way of swallowing up basically ALL of your free time. And I didn't feel happier or better off for having spent my time that way, it felt more like compulsion than desire. I see a lot of young people on the internet being enslaved by compulsion like this, engaging in somewhat problematic consumption of video-games, porn, or social media.
I decided to just uninstall and stop playing those sorts of games, but I was also a grown-up with life experiences, hobbies, social connections, and responsibilities before I ever started. I knew what I was missing with "real life" by letting myself sink into that so it was easy enough for me to stop, I had other, more edifying sources of dopamine to go after. Kids, often times, either don't have enough freedom of movement to go do those things or just plain don't know what else there is out there. It's the same reason drug and gambling addiction tends to take hold among people with depression.
- ip26 8y agoThe other problem with MOBA's, at least for me- wins feel easy & shallow, the reward is small, while losses are a struggle & kind of crushing. So inevitably I sign off feeling unhappy & unfulfilled.