Anecdote time: every time me and my wife have been busy and not had enough fun family time for a couple of days, my 2 year old starts breaking things and having

Anecdote time: every time me and my wife have been busy and not had enough fun family time for a couple of days, my 2 year old starts breaking things and having tantrums. Sure, small kid, small problems, but actually spending time with him is waaay more productive than getting angry. It becomes a positive spiral. Sure, i am tired and stressed out sometimes and that makes actually being above thinking he's just a shit kid very hard.