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All the women and men in my life manage to quarantine their phone use to their personal time. I have a tough time imagining you spending time with a friend whe

• darawk 8y ago
  Sure, when people are actively spending time with me they're usually not on their phone. But you have no awareness of how people you know spend the rest of their time? I'm around my friends during lots of times where we're not actively spending time together.
• afarrell 8y ago
  > that’s likely a reflection of you Be wary of taking this statement too seriously. 0) It wouldn’t be a direct reflection of you in any case; It might directly reflect what someone thinks of you. But just because a person thinks you are boring (or creepy or lazy or crazy) does not in fact mean you are. Its just a data point. 1) Spinning in your head about whether someone thinks you are a boring person isn’t going to help you or them. Talk to a friend and ask them for direct feedback. 2) Sometimes people do have a habit of getting on their phones and then later regretting not be being present and social. I know I do and I need to make deliberate effort to avoid it (Freedom.app is useful here) 3) Sometimes people are tired.