Depends on who knew about it, and what it means to them. Once its out, its out. Even if its a friend, he’ll have to accept certain consequences lest you reap gr

Depends on who knew about it, and what it means to them. Once its out, its out. Even if its a friend, he’ll have to accept certain consequences lest you reap greater retribution. But because its a friend, you can lighten the burden. The golden parachute, not pursuing the case beyond the minimum, not bringing it up in hiring recommendations, etc. If its already beyond his friend circle, then some kind of punishment is required; but only just enough to get everyone to shut up about it.