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This isn't rocket science. If you fancy someone, you ask him/her on a date, a simple neutral stuff, like a movie. If the other party refuses, that's it. If the
by Illniyar 8y ago
This isn't rocket science. If you fancy someone, you ask him/her on a date, a simple neutral stuff, like a movie. If the other party refuses, that's it. If the other party is a subordinate you just don't.
You don't invite them to Burning man, you don't have business meetings in your house late at night, you don't tell someone your his slave, you don't offer to swing with your wife (from a different post I read), seriously.
- ummonk 8y agoI agree about "don't" if the party is a subordinate. However, in a sex positive culture, what makes a date request so special compared to all the other types of romantic / sexual requests?
- Illniyar 8y agoWhat's a sex positive culture? regardless if you want casual romantic or sexual relationship do it with someone out of the office. There are enough people in the world that you don't know anything about you can easily have a casual relationship with, there are apps for that, apparently. A date assumes you have a more serious relationship in mind. No body cares if you marry a co-worker, it's causal relationships that could cause trouble. Besides, asking someone on a date is never ambiguous, and it can't be taken badly or out of context.