Ugg, you are describing the problem of the century. Unfortunately I don't have an answer to that. It is apparently quite easy for people to convince themselves

Ugg, you are describing the problem of the century. Unfortunately I don't have an answer to that. It is apparently quite easy for people to convince themselves that they are "protecting the character of the neighborhood" while also hurting other people, while not realizing it. I think that the only solution is to get together a voting cohort of renters, that will fight and vote for their own benefit. But this is hard work and there are no easy solutions.