> The government doesn't get to decide how long I can hold that grudge. No, they don't and they shouldn't. But for your own mental health, YOU should forgive i

> The government doesn't get to decide how long I can hold that grudge. No, they don't and they shouldn't. But for your own mental health, YOU should forgive it at some point. Holding grudges and never forgiving is not healthy for you. That doesn't mean you forget, but that it stops defining who you are.