> I'm equally surprised that at the same time, it comes with a list of pre-judged decisions where you have removed the context in favour of just the title of th

> I'm equally surprised that at the same time, it comes with a list of pre-judged decisions where you have removed the context in favour of just the title of the event. I believe some situations require more assurance of “it’s okay” than others. In the office, I’d have to be super very absolutely certain it’s okay before saying anything. At a singles event in a bar I might lead with a sexual overtone and see what happens. And no always means no. Once you say no I say sorry and move on. Although I do like the policy of a sex club I was at once: If you do anything you have to apologize for, you are banned from the club for forever. More venues should adopt that policy.