and then you carry the possibility of more possible events with you into every interaction. You have to become hyper-vigilant for even average workdays. The 'e

and then you carry the possibility of more possible events with you into every interaction. You have to become hyper-vigilant for even average workdays. The 'event' is more than the time it takes to happen, it colors the rest of your interactions with a company. (Do the other people know? do they condone? Who is safe? if the initial event was minor, will that person escalate?) exhausting.