This isn't going to be popular, but the "general idea" of what could be fair and "the specific application" will never be on the same side. Why? On one hand -

This isn't going to be popular, but the "general idea" of what could be fair and "the specific application" will never be on the same side. Why? On one hand - I love the general idea that everyone should start on the same playing field. On the other hand - My work ethic should infact give my children a major advantage. I know it's not PC to say that, but most fathers would like to "give an advantage" to their children. It's baked in to our basic psychology. Maybe the question is "who decides" and then "who enforces" fair?