They are in places. So what? That's not really the issue. I don't need any help personally. For me, I'm in a good place, few worries. Others may need help,

They are in places. So what? That's not really the issue. I don't need any help personally. For me, I'm in a good place, few worries. Others may need help, and they may even make that known too. Posing that question isn't really how to get at the matter of help. For that to actually happen and be germane, understanding needs to come first. I put what I did here to that end. Same with this comment.