I don't judge you, but* you're naive to believe what someone says, not what they do. * this is where you can usually tell someone is judging And your metaphor

I don't judge you, but* you're naive to believe what someone says, not what they do. * this is where you can usually tell someone is judging And your metaphor of the poor as children you wouldn't steal candy from is exactly the kind of ideological superiority i'm talking about.