I help keep at least one fork due to the upstream community being toxic. It's expensive, but what can you do? A small and healthy community doesn't even need

I help keep at least one fork due to the upstream community being toxic. It's expensive, but what can you do? A small and healthy community doesn't even need a code of conduct, but in the long run any large community needs by-laws and governance, and that includes rules for punishing toxic participants.