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If you want a person to change you have to tell them something they don't want to [hear]. Instead of telling, try teaching. Show by example, ideally not in he
by nitrogen 8y ago
If you want a person to change you have to tell them something they don't want to [hear].
Instead of telling, try teaching.
Show by example, ideally not in heated moments when people will reject the advice, a better way to handle resources or stress or confrontations or whatever.
- neom 8y agoCouple that with lifting people up, showing them their worth, purpose, giving them meaning. Then real change happens. I was 300lbs and no advice under the sun could have brought me to and allowed me to maintain my current healthy weight, it was only through real love did that happen.
- DenisM 8y agoAn astute observation. Another thing I found that works is to show by several examples, by many people (preferably friends). The lizard brain is receptive to social proof.