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I think it's less "not wanting to help other people" and more "wanting to do what is valued". Value could manifest in many ways: * purely intrinsic ("doing coo
by thrmsforbfast 8y ago
I think it's less "not wanting to help other people" and more "wanting to do what is valued". Value could manifest in many ways:
* purely intrinsic ("doing cool work" vs. "de facto IT guy")
* purely extrinsic (the year-end perf review won't give me kudos for helping with excel documents)
* a mixture (I want this organization to succeed, the best way for me to do that is by doing X, and instead I'm helping debug excel sheets).
Often it's a mixture since people often enjoy doing what brings the most value. I do volunteer stuff for a charity. A lot of the stuff I do is very interesting and challenging and valuable to the charity's core mission. But I'm also expected to help other volunteers with mundane helpdesk stuff like connecting to the wireless network. I don't enjoy it and also it distracts from a much more valuable use of my time.
- css 8y agoI don't disagree with you but I was speaking to the premise of the article, which exposits that one should "run the other way" when people come bearing questions.