1. Not to naively trust others so very easily. Which leads to... drastic change in your personality and that leads to.. 2. Being very assertive, dominant, out

1. Not to naively trust others so very easily. Which leads to... drastic change in your personality and that leads to.. 2. Being very assertive, dominant, outgoing, life of the party, charisma, worldy wise etc. I wish I was the same idealistic person I once was. I am definitely enjoying life way better than ever before but I no longer am naive.