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I think it helps in such cases to remember that just being in such a position puts you in the top and being mediocre across very talented peers is an achievemen
by ascar 8y ago
I think it helps in such cases to remember that just being in such a position puts you in the top and being mediocre across very talented peers is an achievement. It always helped me when moving up ranks in activities, when I hit my ceiling.
- ivanmaeder 8y agoAlso reminds me of the idea of fixed vs growth mindsets. > Suddenly, his math skills were only mediocre compared to his new peers. He became depressed after this. With a fixed mindset, you think your ability is static and so it can get you down when you stop being at the top. With the growth mindset you know that your ability is not static and can get better with effort. Think of the opportunity he had to learn from his new peers. Hopefully he got over the depression.