I had a few moments: First fight where we both knew that we fought about something but it was no longer on a level of staying together or not. And when I real

I had a few moments: First fight where we both knew that we fought about something but it was no longer on a level of staying together or not. And when I realized that my wife is the person for whom some standpoints on my side are worth changing. Also doing something only for her or for us. I think that my relationship with my wife thought me to care way more and to understand other people better. 'Understanding/getting' it and living it are two different things.