Correctly identifying poor emotional intelligence as such is not necessarily nice, no. Fortunately I never-not-once said a word about "how important it is to be

Correctly identifying poor emotional intelligence as such is not necessarily nice, no. Fortunately I never-not-once said a word about "how important it is to be nice". It's important to not be a toxic asshole. There is a real and obvious difference between the assertion I made and the assertion you are attempting to say that I made.