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You can communicate directly without also being insulting. You don't need to literally feel what other people are feeling (empathy) to not go out of your way to
by SolaceQuantum 8y ago
You can communicate directly without also being insulting. You don't need to literally feel what other people are feeling (empathy) to not go out of your way to make people feel bad about themselves. I don't think there's a concern with 'Linus didn't wish everyone a good morning/didn't compliment so-and-so's code while suggesting changes' but with 'Linus insulted people to their face'. The former is cuddly, the latter is politeness.
- vn100c 8y agoMainly there are really nice people with no influence, Machiavellian sociopaths with smiling faces, the unperturbed who often come across as haughty and boring, and the Linuses. The haughty people often get more on my nerves than Linus.