> You must conform to an externally defined standard of virtue, or face consequences ... That is basically every East Asian culture in a nutshell: https://en.

> You must conform to an externally defined standard of virtue, or face consequences ... That is basically every East Asian culture in a nutshell: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Face_(sociological_concept) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Face_(sociological_concept) Related: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Honne_and_tatemae https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Honne_and_tatemae