As someone who suffers from depression for almost 20 years I would like to provide some thought: Sometimes if you really just want to die and can not move out

As someone who suffers from depression for almost 20 years I would like to provide some thought: Sometimes if you really just want to die and can not move out of bed, it would be REALLY(!) helpful if you would just be allowed to. If I could just go to my parents or my friends and say "hey, I love you all, but I have enough, I want to die" and if then nobody would be like "oh! you feel that bad? how can we help you? We are there for you" but just accept what I just said "I want to die", make an appointment at a doctor's office, give me some overdose and let me like. Act the same way as if I told them I want to move to another country, talk about it if you need, accept it and accept it as a life choice. If that would be really socially accepted–and I mean really accepted, not just some imaginary accepted by everyone just in order to treat the depressed–then I suspect a lot of depression would go away, because everyone who is depressed and fights to get out of bed everyday would have a real new choice, a real new option that is not looked down upon like "I want to die but everybody I love will be mad or sad". And having real options and choices you are free to take helps a lot if you are depressed. It's the feeling of having a lot of choices but being not allowed/accepted/able to take them that often stops one from finding the strength to fight back.