> This started happening to me after I got married. Social signalling is very important. The fact that you're married is a signal to others that you're stable/

> This started happening to me after I got married. Social signalling is very important. The fact that you're married is a signal to others that you're stable/good/OK enough that another human being has committed to spend their life with you, to start a family with you, to be exclusive with you etc. It is signalling maturity which many folks find calming and attractive.