If someone feels like that already, I cannot recommend having children or being responsible for a garden or home maintenance. You will be swamped. That said, o

If someone feels like that already, I cannot recommend having children or being responsible for a garden or home maintenance. You will be swamped. That said, optimising your routine can be rewarding. Morning and evening routines with your children can be great fun. Something like cooking, which can be a chore to some, is a treat to others (myself included). IMO, it's helpful to prioritise important things for the morning while you're sharp, and leave non-essential things for the late evening when feeling tired or falling asleep barely matters (watching a movie or playing PS4). Pay bills/etc or check your stocks during your lunch break. Minimise your grocery shopping trips - keep a stock of staples and then do a weekly shop for meat, milk, etc. Exercise in the morning. That should start to free up your evenings.